I don't disagree, though some sacrifices are necessary. That said, you may find that many of the people here don't agree with your perspective.

[And as callous as Lexa is, she can't help but see it as a thing that they are better off capitalizing on. Unless she grows fond of them. In those situations, she leans harder on her own inherent selfishness, but that's not something she's bound to advertise anytime soon.]